Thursday, April 4, 2013

Any of Y'all Into Gurls Like I AM, Lez-b-honest!

What’z up family and friends, this is Leon aka The Love Doctor aka ASH.  I need to keep it 100% on this topic; and the topic is Rejection.  This blog is for the fellas; I come at people a lot on some real deal Holy field talk. Fellas, STAY AWAY FROM ONLINE DATING SITES.” I will go further than that and say, stay away from any website where beautiful women post pictures of themselves, i.e. “facebook. 

If you a dude, and I mean a 100% MAN, and you see pictures of beautiful women clustered together, you would feel like a fat kid inside a candy store and try to talk to every one of those women!  And that’s some REAL DEAL HONESTY for you females who are reading this blog. 

Now, the bad thing about this online dating, is that your “REJECTION RATIO” goes up exponentially whereas your “SUCCESS RATIO” drops exponentially.  Only the male models will succeed at online dating, because they have the look, and the look is all that is required initially.  I will use my own story as an example.  In the year 2005, when I would see women in the streets and grocery stores, my “SUCCESS RATIO” was 95%, that’s an A+, meaning I was pretty successful.  Now, I wasn’t having success with “ALL” the women I liked, but it was a do-ableREJECTION RATIO,” AND the REJECTION was spread out over a matter of weeks.   

Well, no thanks to my homeboy, I became privy to a dating website.  My “SUCCESS RATIO,” drop from 95% to 60% in a two day time frame.  I never felt that much rejection, that fast, by that many women, in all my days of living.  These women blocked my profile, told me how I was not their type, told me to get real-real fast, and the BEST LINE came from a lady that said, she was not even looking for a date on this dating website.   That negativity affected my mental, I had to give that online dating up and stick to the real world dating. I am not sure if women can relate to this, but I know the non- model fellas can. STAY AWAY FROM IT!!